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                    [Title] => After the love has gone: Terminating your loveless marriage may have immigration advantages
                    [Summary] => 

Years ago, my US citizen parent petitioned me as a married child (Category F – 3). However, my husband left me for another woman and started a family with her. I want nothing more to do with my husband, and his bruha mistress can have him.

[DatePublished] => 2015-08-22 10:00:00 [ColumnID] => 134402 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1805111 [AuthorName] => Michael J. Gurfinkel [SectionName] => Opinion [SectionUrl] => opinion [URL] => ) [1] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 965751 [Title] => You’ve got bill! [Summary] =>

I am writing to you on behalf of my husband, who’s an architect. He was asked to design the house of a friend (a recent retiree from a topnotch international bank) and had been working on it for the past 14 months.

[DatePublished] => 2013-07-14 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 133549 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1749293 [AuthorName] => Socorro C. Ramos [SectionName] => Sunday Lifestyle [SectionUrl] => sunday-life [URL] => ) [2] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 962353 [Title] => How do I file a cyberbullying case? [Summary] =>

I wanted to ask for your advice regarding cyberbullying. I know who the person is and I want to file a case. Please let me know how I go about filing the case.

[DatePublished] => 2013-07-07 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 133554 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1749293 [AuthorName] => Socorro C. Ramos [SectionName] => Sunday Lifestyle [SectionUrl] => sunday-life [URL] => ) [3] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 521276 [Title] => A matter of child support [Summary] =>

Dear Nanay,

I am 30-something and six months pregnant.

[DatePublished] => 2009-11-09 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 133549 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1749293 [AuthorName] => Socorro C. Ramos [SectionName] => Lifestyle Business [SectionUrl] => business-life [URL] => ) [4] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 425506 [Title] => A widow needs extra income [Summary] =>

Dear Nanay,

I have been a widow for two years now and life began to change when my husband died. [DatePublished] => 2008-12-22 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 133549 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1749293 [AuthorName] => Socorro C. Ramos [SectionName] => Lifestyle Business [SectionUrl] => business-life [URL] => ) [5] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 24150 [Title] => Should she blow the whistle? [Summary] =>

Dear Nanay,

I have a suspicion that my boss is receiving kickbacks from our suppliers. According to our Corporate Governance Policy bawal iyon. (It is forbidden.) Should I tell our governance officer of our big boss? I am afraid that I might get fired.

[DatePublished] => 2007-10-29 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 133557 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1749293 [AuthorName] => Socorro C. Ramos [SectionName] => Lifestyle Business [SectionUrl] => business-life [URL] => ) [6] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 20994 [Title] => Repaying large gifts [Summary] =>

My wife comes from a wealthy family. Every so often, her family will pay for things for our family. They treat us to trips abroad, have repairs made on our house, and have even given us a new car.

[DatePublished] => 2007-10-15 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 133557 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1749293 [AuthorName] => Socorro C. Ramos [SectionName] => Lifestyle Business [SectionUrl] => business-life [URL] => ) [7] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 306613 [Title] => What happens to my H-1B visa if my company goes out of business? [Summary] => Dear Atty. Gurfinkel:

I have an H-1B visa through my company, which is valid until May 2007. Unfortunately, because of downsizing and reorganization, my company has advised me that they will be terminating my employment in three months. Because my visa is valid until May 2007, would I continue to be "in status" up until 2007, even if my company goes out of business or terminates my employment?

Sincerely,

M.C.


Dear M.C.:

[DatePublished] => 2005-11-13 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 134402 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1805111 [AuthorName] => Michael J. Gurfinkel [SectionName] => Opinion [SectionUrl] => opinion [URL] => ) [8] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 276640 [Title] => Naghihintay sa wala [Summary] => Dear Dr. Love,

Magandang araw po sa inyo. Sana ay datnan kayo ng sulat ko na nasa mabuting kalagayan.

Tawagin na lamang ninyo akong M.C., 22 years old. Ang problema ko po ay tungkol sa boyfriend kong si J.C., 22 years-old.
[DatePublished] => 2005-05-07 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 133272 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => [AuthorName] => [SectionName] => Dr. Love [SectionUrl] => dr-love [URL] => ) [9] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 225958 [Title] => Naghihintay sa wala [Summary] => Dear Dr. Love,

Magandang araw po sa inyo. Sana ay datnan kayo ng sulat ko na nasa mabuting kalagayan.

Tawagin na lamang ninyo akong M.C., 22 years old. Ang problema ko po ay tungkol sa boyfriend kong si J.C., 22 years-old.
[DatePublished] => 2003-10-29 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 133272 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => [AuthorName] => [SectionName] => Dr. Love [SectionUrl] => dr-love [URL] => ) ) )
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                    [ArticleID] => 1491169
                    [Title] => After the love has gone: Terminating your loveless marriage may have immigration advantages
                    [Summary] => 

Years ago, my US citizen parent petitioned me as a married child (Category F – 3). However, my husband left me for another woman and started a family with her. I want nothing more to do with my husband, and his bruha mistress can have him.

[DatePublished] => 2015-08-22 10:00:00 [ColumnID] => 134402 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1805111 [AuthorName] => Michael J. Gurfinkel [SectionName] => Opinion [SectionUrl] => opinion [URL] => ) [1] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 965751 [Title] => You’ve got bill! [Summary] =>

I am writing to you on behalf of my husband, who’s an architect. He was asked to design the house of a friend (a recent retiree from a topnotch international bank) and had been working on it for the past 14 months.

[DatePublished] => 2013-07-14 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 133549 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1749293 [AuthorName] => Socorro C. Ramos [SectionName] => Sunday Lifestyle [SectionUrl] => sunday-life [URL] => ) [2] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 962353 [Title] => How do I file a cyberbullying case? [Summary] =>

I wanted to ask for your advice regarding cyberbullying. I know who the person is and I want to file a case. Please let me know how I go about filing the case.

[DatePublished] => 2013-07-07 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 133554 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1749293 [AuthorName] => Socorro C. Ramos [SectionName] => Sunday Lifestyle [SectionUrl] => sunday-life [URL] => ) [3] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 521276 [Title] => A matter of child support [Summary] =>

Dear Nanay,

I am 30-something and six months pregnant.

[DatePublished] => 2009-11-09 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 133549 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1749293 [AuthorName] => Socorro C. Ramos [SectionName] => Lifestyle Business [SectionUrl] => business-life [URL] => ) [4] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 425506 [Title] => A widow needs extra income [Summary] =>

Dear Nanay,

I have been a widow for two years now and life began to change when my husband died. [DatePublished] => 2008-12-22 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 133549 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1749293 [AuthorName] => Socorro C. Ramos [SectionName] => Lifestyle Business [SectionUrl] => business-life [URL] => ) [5] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 24150 [Title] => Should she blow the whistle? [Summary] =>

Dear Nanay,

I have a suspicion that my boss is receiving kickbacks from our suppliers. According to our Corporate Governance Policy bawal iyon. (It is forbidden.) Should I tell our governance officer of our big boss? I am afraid that I might get fired.

[DatePublished] => 2007-10-29 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 133557 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1749293 [AuthorName] => Socorro C. Ramos [SectionName] => Lifestyle Business [SectionUrl] => business-life [URL] => ) [6] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 20994 [Title] => Repaying large gifts [Summary] =>

My wife comes from a wealthy family. Every so often, her family will pay for things for our family. They treat us to trips abroad, have repairs made on our house, and have even given us a new car.

[DatePublished] => 2007-10-15 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 133557 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1749293 [AuthorName] => Socorro C. Ramos [SectionName] => Lifestyle Business [SectionUrl] => business-life [URL] => ) [7] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 306613 [Title] => What happens to my H-1B visa if my company goes out of business? [Summary] => Dear Atty. Gurfinkel:

I have an H-1B visa through my company, which is valid until May 2007. Unfortunately, because of downsizing and reorganization, my company has advised me that they will be terminating my employment in three months. Because my visa is valid until May 2007, would I continue to be "in status" up until 2007, even if my company goes out of business or terminates my employment?

Sincerely,

M.C.


Dear M.C.:

[DatePublished] => 2005-11-13 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 134402 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1805111 [AuthorName] => Michael J. Gurfinkel [SectionName] => Opinion [SectionUrl] => opinion [URL] => ) [8] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 276640 [Title] => Naghihintay sa wala [Summary] => Dear Dr. Love,

Magandang araw po sa inyo. Sana ay datnan kayo ng sulat ko na nasa mabuting kalagayan.

Tawagin na lamang ninyo akong M.C., 22 years old. Ang problema ko po ay tungkol sa boyfriend kong si J.C., 22 years-old.
[DatePublished] => 2005-05-07 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 133272 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => [AuthorName] => [SectionName] => Dr. Love [SectionUrl] => dr-love [URL] => ) [9] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 225958 [Title] => Naghihintay sa wala [Summary] => Dear Dr. Love,

Magandang araw po sa inyo. Sana ay datnan kayo ng sulat ko na nasa mabuting kalagayan.

Tawagin na lamang ninyo akong M.C., 22 years old. Ang problema ko po ay tungkol sa boyfriend kong si J.C., 22 years-old.
[DatePublished] => 2003-10-29 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 133272 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => [AuthorName] => [SectionName] => Dr. Love [SectionUrl] => dr-love [URL] => ) ) )
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