Déjà vu in Las Vegas

What happened in Las Vegas last Dec. 20 was some kind of a déjà vu experience for beauty-watchers. It was a repetition in reverse of what happened in Athens in 1973 when Miss USA Amanda Jones lost the Miss Universe crown to the Philippines’ Margie Moran. In Las Vegas, the Philippines’ Janine Tugonon finished first runner-up to USA’s Olivia Culpo.

Meanwhile, here’s what former Binibinis have to say about Janine (as gathered by Funfare’s “other beauty expert” Celso de Guzman Caparas):

Janine’s fellow binibini sisters were also among those who rejoiced on her triumph. Here are their messages:

•Gloria Diaz, Miss Universe 1969: I just thought Janine was gorgeous and gave a very good answer. We all felt shortchanged, but never mind, she’s still a winner to us. We love our beauty queens. First runner-up, that’s really something.

•Margie Moran-Floirendo, Miss Universe 1973:  Janine is still a winner in the eyes of the world and to all Filipinos. She was able to show to the world that she had a shot at the coveted crown.

•Marilen Ojeda, Miss International 1973 4th runner-up: Janine did a great job. My friends and I believe that she should have won. She answered the question with confidence. Janine is Miss Universe in our hearts. She made us proud. Congratulations, Janine!

•Joyce Ann Burton-Titular, Miss Young International 1981 semi-finalist and Bb. Pilipinas Universe 1985: Good job! Thanks, Janine!

•Desiree Verdadero-Abesamis, Miss Universe 1984 4th runner-up: Well done, Janine. Thank you for the wonderful Christmas gift.

•Dindi Gallardo-Mills, Bb. Pilipinas Universe 1993: Great news about Miss Philippines. Way to go. Congrats!

•Jhezarie Javier-Gaisano, Bb. Pilipinas International 2003 and Miss ASEAN 2005: From a fellow Thomasian and Binibini sister, congratulations! Wishing you all the best and God bless.

•Maan Bayot-De Guzman, Miss International 2004 semi-finalist: Proud to be your Binibini sister.

•Gionna Cabrera, Bb. Pilipinas Universe 2005: A Miriam Quiambao moment. Happy holidays to all the beauties.

•Katrina Jayne Dimaranan, Bb. Pilipinas Tourism 2012: Home, sweet home. Still can’t get over it.

Words of wisdom courtesy of Korina

We’ve eaten the crabs and the prawns (burp, burp!!!) and we kept for posterity the “words of wisdom” that the givers, Sen. Mar Roxas and his wife Korina Sanchez enclosed in the package. Sorry, I can’t share the crabs and the prawns with you, only the following:

25 Ways to Add Meaning to the Holidays

By Ken Wert

1. Research the history of the occasion and share what you learn with friends and family.

2. Use the day to connect with people you care deeply about. Get together. Strengthen bonds. Laugh. Talk. Love.

3. Give a creative gift from the heart (something homemade) instead of busting your budget or depleting your life savings, or having to sell a kidney for the money. My favorite was a financially tight Christmas years ago when we all made Christmas ornaments for each other as gifts. We still use them today!

4. Instead of giving gifts (except, perhaps for the younger kids), use the money you would have spent on each other and donate it to a good cause. But make this a family decision — no dictatorial proclamations, or you may be adding a very different kind of meaning to this holiday than the one intended!

5. Volunteer at a homeless shelter or food bank.

6. Create a stocking full of treats and gifts and place it (them) on a doorstep of someone you know has lost their job or has no family.

7. Deliver a food basket to a homeless person.

8. Talk to others about what is most meaningful about the holiday. Simply having this kind of conversation will underscore its significance for you.

9. Write a letter telling someone you love (or someone you need to forgive or who you’ve offended) how much you care for them and appreciate them as you wish them a Merry Christmas.

10. Make doing a good deed everyday from this reading to the end of the year an annual part of your Christmas tradition.

11. Go to church/synagogue/temple as part of your celebration.

12. Find an inspirational movie about the holiday and watch it with family and friends. Our favorite is the Frank Capra classic It’s a Wonderful Life with Jimmy Stewart.

13. Sit down with your family and establish some new traditions that will build meaning into the season and into the future. One of ours is to deliver cookies to neighbors and friends on Christmas Eve, then sit down and watch It’s a Wonderful Life together.

14. Deliver cookies to neighbors, family and friends.

15. Go Christmas caroling at the burn-victims ward.

16. Visit a shelter for abused kids to read books or play games with them.

17. Read How the Grinch Stole Christmas or A Christmas Carol or Little Women or any other favorite work that touches on deeper elements of the holiday.

18. Read the Christmas story in the Bible to see how it all got started.

19. Learn some of the symbolism of the Christmas tree, the candy cane and the stockings.

20. Have each of the kids choose one of their gifts to take to a poor family who won’t otherwise have much of a Christmas.

21. Set up a hot cocoa stand near a freeway overpass or anywhere else homeless people congregate in your town and give hot cocoa out for free. Or set it up in the parking lot of a local shopping center or mall just to be kind.

22. Visit your grandparents (or a convalescent home) and ask them to tell your stories about Christmas when they were children.

23. Put up your lights this year — it’s an altruistic gift to others who see the lights and are better able to get into the mood and spirit of the holiday.

24. Call the holiday by name. Refuse to use meaning-sapping words like winter-break and holiday tree, or to wish people “Happy Holidays!” Wish them a “Merry Christmas” or “Happy Hanukkah.” Only silly people will object and they need to get over their silliness anyway! Lovingly help them.

25. Give the gift of living better, kinder, more honest, more committed to your family, gentler, with more courage and compassion and love and forgiveness, more faithful and hopeful and positive and thoughtful as you finish the year and begin a new one.

And let that be the ultimate gift and the ultimate meaning you attach to this wonderful, sacred, joyful time of the year.