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Dear Dr. Love,

Call me July. I’m already on my mid 30’s and I just want to have my future partner this time. I’ve been longing for someone whom I can spend the rest of my life with. I dont want flings or just fun relationships. I’ve been through a lot already.

I’m single and have not yet married because of my responsibilty to my family specially to my mother. But this time im ready to fall in love again. I have a job and working here in Manila.  But still I’m not happy. Some of my friends do look for me but they are all young and I want to find a mature guy who are single and ready to settle down also. I dont have any high standards. Just want a man who is single, serious, responsible and God fearing like me. I hope through your column I can find my destiny. Have a good day and pls publish­ my email ([email protected]). More power

Sincerely,

July

Dear July,

Seeking a possible lifetime partner through correspondence may not be the proper way of searching for someone to love lalu na kapag hindi mo ginamit ang iyong pag-iisip.

Quite often, kahit inaakala na nating kila­lang kilala na natin ang isang tao ay dumarating ang araw na nakikita natin ang kanyang kapintasan. Kaya ang payo ko sa iyo, pakasuriin mo ang bawat taong makikipagkilala sa iyo sa pamama­gitan ng column na ito para walang sisihan pagdating ng araw.

Dr. Love

PS: Para sa mga mambabasa natin, may tinanggap akong email mula sa isang Jowan Zomil, isang guro na nailathala umano ang kasaysayan sa pitak na ito ng tatlong beses pero hindi naman daw siya sumusulat sa atin. Nananawagan din si Ms. Zomil sa may kagagawan ng sulat na dahil sa ginawa niya’y nadungisan ang kanyang reputasyon dahil walang katotohanan ang kanyang isinalaysay. Kaya kami’y humihingi ng paumanhin kay Ms. Zomil at mula ngayon, patakaran na ng Dr. Love na huwag gumamit ng buong pangalan kundi puro alias na lang.