On a recent trip to Hong Kong, the friendly Indian moneychanger mistook me for a domestic helper.
With apologies to Ben Chan, I was wearing my typical uniform of loose black Bench V-neck tee (I own four), jeans and trainers.
My friends tipped me off on the plain Bench tees.
I have friends who are obsessed with them, owning five or six in all-white, all-black, or different colors.
I do love to get dressed for certain occasions, but if youre working and running around the whole day, who wants to be in an outfit?
I spoke to my stylist friend Michael Salientes and came up with names of some really chic people who dont need to make an effort every day.
Never mind that he has funny hair and a goatee and looks like a candidate for Queer Eye. Hes one of the worlds greatest designers.
Hes also a martial artist and chairman of Karatenomichi World Federation Headquarters.
When not wearing his karate outfit, hes always in a black uniform of long-sleeve top and loose pants.
Every time I bump into Margarita Fores, shes in a simple white top, black pants and flats.
"Its her work clothes, sort of like comfortable clothes, but if you look at her its different," said stylist Michael Salientes.
"Its not Gap. Its probably a Dior top or a custom-made Ascot Chang with her initials on it, Prada pants and Chanel shoes. She has a very deep knowledge of quality clothes. She understands the luxurious side of clothes, not necessarily the label."
I thought of Bill Cunningham of the New York Times whom I used to see at the shows when I was studying in New York.
Hes at the center of all fashion events and photographs the worlds most beautiful clothes and people, yet hes always in the same blue parka.
"Hes beyond dressing," said Michael who met him while working in New York.
"I went to his apartment behind Carnegie Hall. Its 80 percent books, just books piled up 10 feet high. And like six or eight pieces of clothing on a rod, pressed and hung.
"Hes been wearing those for the past 30 to 40 years. I dont think he gained weight. Very Sears-Roebuck ang look. Completely non-designer. The essence is Sears, very American working class."
Marc Jacobs, who does wonderful things with Louis Vuitton and dictates to fashion-conscious women worldwide, is often seen in a favored blue shirt, khakis and Converse shoes.
While searching his photos on the Net, I found four pictures of him in the same or similar blue shirt: Untucked, tucked in, with a white T-shirt inside, and a gray sweater on top.
"That style with the Converse is so big now," said Michael. "Thats been his uniform for so long."
Tadi de Leon who works at Paul Smith is "a really good example of a good straight dresser," says Michael. "Like a nice, untucked Paul Smith shirt and Margiela jeans. Somehow he looks great. Just one layer: Long sleeves, straight jeans, not too many details."
"Every day, its always an untucked shirt," said Tadi. "Basically the same shape, iba lang ang color. You never see me tucking in my shirt, because I have a flat butt. I dont tuck in my shirt unless its really necessary, like a formal thing. I usually wear canvas shoes like Converse because I stand all day."
A friend of mine recalled an old Vogue article that said Tom Ford, when he was still at Gucci, would pick six pairs of jeans, five white shirts, and five black shirts and wear it the whole year.
"Fashion is the last thing I want to think about for myself," said Tom Ford in an interview with the Associated Press.
"Im really quite classic. I wear almost the same thing every day, a dark suit and a white shirt. For evening, a velvet jacket, a white shirt and dark trousers," he said. "Its almost a uniform."