Abraham Lincoln, the American president who faced tremendous personal struggles in his life, once said, "I have been driven to my knees many times by the overwhelming conviction that I had nowhere else to go."
And it often takes just that–you have nowhere else to go–before you are willing to pray. To have to say, "God, I’m at the end of myself and I have nowhere else to turn," is humiliating. It’s like being absolutely broke and having to go to a friend and say, "Hey, could you make me a loan? I don’t have enough money to buy bread and milk for the children."
If you can fix something yourself, you can then sit back and say, "Hey, look what I did! I pulled the strings. I made the right connections. I’m actually pretty good." But when you pray about something, you’re asking from a position of weakness. There is something about our old nature that doesn’t like to be put in that position. That something is called pride.
"I’d rather do it myself," we think, really hesitant to ask God to do what we cannot. Stubborn, fierce independence always militates against prayer, yet the stark reality is that there are a lot of things that you cannot fix–the sorrow and pain of a broken relationship, the devastating reality that you are mortal. The doctor can‘t fix the cancer that grew in your wife’s spleen just as you reached retirement age and thought you could now enjoy life together. You can’t change the stock market, or the rains that devastated your crops, leaving you at the door of bankruptcy.
There are some things only God can do!
In his powerful little book Fresh Wind, Fresh Fire, Jim Cymbala charges that a lot of pastors with empty pews and hearts fall into the same trap as do the people who sit in the pews–the position of not wanting to knock on heaven’s door, empty-handed and at the end of themselves. They try to fix things through programs instead of depend on the power of God. When Jim Cymbala took a broken-down church in a bad neighborhood, there were fewer than 25 people in attendance. Today, some 25 years later, more than 6,000 people crowd Brooklyn Tabernacle. What was the key to the growth? Program? No, God’s power to change lives as a result of prayer.
He says, "God has chosen prayer as his channel of blessing. He has spread a table for us with every kind of wisdom, grace, and strength because He knows exactly what we need. But the only way we can get it is to pull up to the table and taste and see that the Lord is good. Pulling up to that table is called the prayer of faith."
How do you overcome your position of weakness? You don’t. But it helps to understand that God is not expecting you to come as an equal, to drive a deal with Him by agreeing that if He bails you out of your problem, you’ll do something equally helpful to Him in return.
That’s what grace is about, grace which comes from the hand of a loving, compassionate Father who delights in meeting you at your point of need. - Resource reading: John 16:17-33