MANILA, Philippines – Walang kuwentang ama si James Yap sa kanyang anak na si Bimby.
Ito ang more or less puwedeng ihambing na salita sa mga sinabi ni Kris Aquino tungkol sa ama ng kanyang bunsong anak matapos nitong balewalain/isnabin ang imbitasyon niya (Kris) sa ama ng anak para sa kanyang first communion nito.
Heto ang mga sinabi ni Kris sa kanyang IG account.
Tuesday was the rehearsal & 1st Confession, Bimb’s actual 1st Communion is on Thursday, November 26. (I prayed a lot today, weighing sharing the whole truth vs. keeping quiet but fearing that Bimb & I will again be put in a bad light. I’m choosing to share just the simple facts but not posting screen grabs of texts that could come across as pinamukha ko pa ang pagsisinungaling... While we were in Hawaii, to be precise 2X on Oct 31, 12 hours apart I sent a text informing Bimb’s father about his 1st Holy Communion & extending an invitation. I had gone to Church 2X while on vacation & felt that I should give him the opportunity to be part of this special occasion, primarily because of the 4th Commandment: To honor thy father & mother. I got no reply until Tuesday, Nov 24- and only because on Sunday in an IG comment saying it would be good for Bimb’s father to be present I answered w/ the truth that our invitation was ignored.) I reached a turning point in 2014 when I felt I didn’t want my son deprived of a relationship w/ his father because of pride. We settled amicably in court regarding visitation... I know you know how I dote on my 2 sons, and I prayed for Bimb to feel loved & appreciated not just by me & Kuya, & those close to me, but also by his father & if that meant humbling myself & opening the door to communication, I did do it. I don’t have to say much more, all you have to do is check the social media accounts of both of Bimb’s parents & you’ll see the truth regarding prioritizing parental responsibility.
The reason for this post is simple, sana matauhan sya that he’s missing out on being a father to such a good boy. And it’s sad that there is no effort for this kind hearted & generous boy from the other person in this world who should want to be a part of his life. Hindi ko pinipigilan, walang issue na sunduin nya sa school at mag merienda sila, pero wala pong kusa. No sharing even w/ just education expense, sana man lang Time & Effort. SAD, but that’s why Bimb has learned to not look for who’s not there for him. L
Kris inamin na ang kanyang pagiging nega, bitter, insecure etc. etc.
Speaking of Kris, nilinis nito ang kanyang IG feed as in dalawang gabi raw ang naubos niya sa pagbubura ng ibang laman ng kanyang IG. At inamin niya rin sa nasabing post na napag-isip-isip niya ang pagiging insecure, KSP, sad etc. etc.
Heto ang buong message niya.
If you’re observant, you’ll notice that I deleted more than 50% of my posts on my IG feed. I spent a sum total of 8 hours over 2 nights cleansing my account of all the times I now realize I was insecure, KSP, self absorbed, sad, lonely, bitter, and negative over the course of roughly 4 years. What’s left behind? All my pictures w/ family & friends, all the instances gratitude flowed from my heart, and moments that I should be proud of... I know I will still occasionally stumble, but I also know how much I’ve learned and how much I’ve grown up.
Uy, at least sa kanyang pag-amin, pinag-uusapan na naman siya na nag-umpisa sa kanyang sunburn sa APEC.