Talk low, talk slow

A soft answer turns away wrath. — Proverbs 15:1

John Wayne, famous American actor and film icon, once said, “Talk low, talk slow and don’t say too much.” His advice is hard for me to follow since I’m a fast talker and I don’t always speak quietly or limit my words. However, this idea of controlling our speech can be a useful tool when dealing with anger. The Bible says we are supposed to be “slow to speak” (James 1:19), and that “a soft answer turns away wrath” (Prov. 15:1).

Gideon gave a soft answer during a verbal scuffle with some fellow Israelites (Judg. 8). Just after his army defeated the Midianites, a group of his countrymen criticized him sharply (v. 1). They were miffed because they missed out on the main part of the battle. Gideon did not fling back a rough response. Instead, he reminded them that they had captured and killed the Midianite princes. He also honored the men by asking, “What was I able to do in comparison with you?” Finally “their anger toward him subsided when he said that” (v. 3).

With the Lord’s help, we can defuse heated situation by reining in our words. Responding gently and carefully to angry people can promote unity, for God’s glory.

— Jennifer Benson Schuldt

Lord, set a guard upon my lips,

My tongue control today;

Help me evaluate each thought

And watch each word I say.

— Hess

READ: Judges 7:24-8:3

Bite your tongue before your tongue bites others.

The Bible in one year:

• 2 Samuel 14-15; Luke 17:1-19