Calm in an age of rage

A soft answer turns away wrath. — Proverbs 15:1

When our daughter Melissa was at the “learning to drive” stage, she had to listen to Mom’s and Dad’s numerous safety speeches. On one occasion, we told her, “If someone cuts you off, stay calm. Don’t make the other driver angry. You don’t know what he or she might do.”

That comment seemed so natural. But as I thought about its implications, I realized how much has changed over time. When I was learning to drive, there was never any mention of “road rage” or being “cut-off.” Angry drivers weren’t a big problem.

But now angry outbursts are so much a part of our lives that we almost expect them. Hateful words are common on TV and radio shows. Students and teachers get into heated arguments. People who don’t even know each other trade insults in public places. Athletes and fans shout in irate tones at sporting events.

We live in an age of rage. But we can help solve the problem — one person at a time. When we’re on the receiving end of someone’s wrath, we can return a soft answer (Prov. 15:1). A calm, reasoned approach can stop anger in its tracks.

Christ stayed calm in the face of hateful accusations at His trial (Luke 23:1-12), and we should follow His example by staying calm in an age of rage. — Dave Branon

Help me guard my lips, O Savior,

Keep me sweet when I am tried;

Answers soft to others giving.

Meekly swallowing my pride. — Bosch

READ: Luke 23:1-12

He who conquers his anger conquers a strong enemy.

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