Who is Jabez?

Jabez was more honorable than his brothers. – 1 Chronicles 4:9

Chinese New Year celebrations are fun for children. When relatives and friends get together, it’s the custom for adults to give children small, red envelopes containing token sums of money. Children often rip open their packets just to get the money, and their parents have to remind them that the giver is more important than the gift.

Similarly, when we study the prayer of Jabez in 1 CHRONICLES 4:9-10, it is important to remember that the Giver, the Lord, is more important than the gift. If we focus solely on the request of Jabez, it could be easy to make the mistake of turning it into a formula for obtaining what we want from God.

We don’t know much about Jabez, except that his mother gave him a name that sounds like the Hebrew word for "distress" or "pain". We’re also told that when he grew up, "Jabez was more honorable than his brothers."

What made Jabez "more honorable"? On the basis of his prayer, we can assume that he took his relationship with God seriously. There was no magic in the words of his prayer. Rather, he knew that God is the giver of all things. Jabez was honorable, I believe, because he honored the Lord.

Our prayer today should be to emulate the character of Jabez, who lived to please God. – Albert Lee

We can’t presume to know what’s best

When we begin to pray;

So we must ask, "What honors God?"

And seek His will and way. – Sper

READ: 1 CHRONICLES 4:9-10

The purpose of prayer is not to get what we want, but to become what God wants.