In the body, there are secret and unseen points or energy centers called chakras. There are seven major chakra points in the body (five along the spine and two on the head). Each chakra vibrates at its own rate and functions for specific needs of the body. The first chakra or the root chakra is located at the base of the spine and the area of the genitals. This is the center for feeling and sexual desire and is associated with the ovaries, vagina, womb and bladder. It is this chakra that you should focus on whenever you feel physically unattractive or downright dowdy.
Know in your mind that you are desirable. Remember that the universe works with you all the time in that it leaves you alone to use energy in whatever way you please. Therefore, use it positively! Any negative feelings of insecurity, fear, pain will only take away from that sexy feeling, so push them all to the side. Focus all this energy in the lowest chakra and feel this area vibrating with life. The physical body will take heed of this energy. It will release a come-hither natural fragrance called Pheromones, secreted by glands and circulated in the blood stream. Emanating from the armpits and around the genitals, they are controlled by underarm and pubic hair which are designed to trap odors. We are unaware of their presence in our system but they exist. They usually begin feelings of arousal on a subconscious level and convey messages to either pursue or avoid a romantic encounter. These feelings create energy that we release to the outside world.
Majority think that to be sexy, one has to use revealing clothes that make men’s eyes drool. While that is obvious, it is not always the case. Sexuality is not what others think about you but is your own personal experience about your total self in body, mind and spirit. You can feel sexy in overalls or jeans and rubber shoes even if you still have your underwear on. What I am trying to say here is that it is all about energy. When you feel good and right about yourself; you begin to feel sexy and extend out positive energy to everyone you come in contact with–both men and women.
Crystals and some semi-precious stones in jewelry are perfect tools to charge us with positive energy from the universe. For enhancing sexuality, look for the reddish-orange colored stone called Carnelian (silicon dioxide). It is a calcedony with a reddish color imparted by iron oxide. Wear this as a piece of jewelry set in gold to make the sexual fire of carnelian come alive. Gold, the metal of fire releases sexual energy. If set as a ring, use the ring on the right hand fourth finger. Carnelian stimulates the sexual chakra and assists in blood purification to cleanse the reproductive organs of any blockages. Named after the Latin carne or flesh, carnelian has been most frequently associated with blood, flesh, carnal passions, sexuality, earthiness and the material world. It is also claimed that carnelian increases the heart rate "feeding" energy molecules directly through the skin into the body. One can also likewise sit in meditation holding a carnelian stone or placing it around the navel and pelvic area to enhance the energy in that area.
It doesn’t necessarily have to follow that you want to feel sexy just for a special someone, or to attract that significant other into your life. Sometimes, feeling sexy only means that you are aware of your sexuality as a woman. Direct your own personal power into an energy field called your aura and making this fantastically-charged with positive energies. In enjoying life in total awareness of the richness of the moment, you face your sexuality as a woman and work towards growth in all aspects of your being. Remember, a woman fully alive cannot help but be alluring and sexy!