January 26, 2004

The Aquarius sun is about trial and error. For the first time in months, we seem to lighten up on ourselves. Failure is just a signal that it’s not going to work – there’s nothing personal about it. "Try something else" is the message. The Aries moon is headstrong, lending the confidence needed to get back on that horse again and again and again.

ARIES (March 21-April 19). You’ve got renewed vigor. Jump into the workday like a Tasmanian devil. In your tornado whirl, obstacles in the path are uprooted, and they never even see it coming. Productive results depend on organization.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20). A challenge boosts your vitality. Compete with an accomplished friend, or work out with a hard-driving trainer. You’ll get that rush of self-esteem that comes from pushing yourself to the limit and living! Romance is playful.

GEMINI (May 21-June 21). Community concerns wind up being your concern sooner or later, so get involved now. In general, opportunities to take on more responsibility are totally lucky. Tonight: Psychological exploration releases old issues.

CANCER (June 22-July 22). Your career has glimmers of something new on the horizon. Make efforts to catch that promising trickle of money, but also know that this stream should be followed to the river, where the real payload is.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22). It’s not so much what you do as who you are being that matters. Clarify your position. If someone sees you as a "servant," you’ll have lots of jobs heaped on you. If you want to be the leader, you have to act like it. Remain cheerful.

TODAY’S BIRTHDAY (January 26). There are frequent indications that you are tops this year! Take the compliment! Friends and family remind you what a special person you are in their world. Next month brings validation on a financial level. In March, your outlook for school and new jobs is terrific. Romance sweeps you up in April. Set limits with your money, though. Your lucky numbers this year are: 4, 22, 19, 8 and 25.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22). If you’re honest with yourself, you’ll realize that new influences are sorely needed. Jaded friends have too many opinions. You’re better off listening to motivational speakers on CDs than calling for a gripe session with a pal.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23). Mentally prepare yourself for competition. Psychological practice is even more helpful than getting a real practice in. There’s a person close to you who needs your approval. Don’t withhold it for petty reasons.

SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21). Contractual obligations are part of what drives the day. Cross T’s and dot I’s. People have different thresholds for disorder, and while you may think your world is a mess, others look at you and think, "Wow!"

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21). There is nothing like the rosy glow of a new relationship to get you feeling on top of the world. Try not to put down other people in your life who have been around longer just because this new person is intoxicating.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19). You believe that if you have to ask for someone’s support, it somehow cheapens the value of that help. Not true. Business travel opens up new sources of income. Aries and Gemini provide killer leads.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18). Teach people how to treat you. Protect your reputation. It’s a big part of how you’ll be getting future business. When the family is getting along, the whole world looks brighter. Try to get feuding people to talk.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20). People find out totally unexpected new information about friends. Keep your own goals in sight as you offer counsel to others. It is easier to see how alike we all are. Cook a big extravagant meal, and watch a bunch of movies!

ASTROLOGICAL QUESTIONS: "My husband of nearly 14 years, a Virgo, has recently begun to question his sexual orientation, and we are in the painful process of deciding whether we will be able to continue our marriage. I am a Cancer, born July 4, 1965. Will we find a way to preserve our relationship? If not, will I find lasting love?"

I believe from looking at your charts that you have a terrific marriage on many levels and would advise that you not split up legally yet and instead opt for a separation. I do believe your husband is gay, and though this is still shocking information to you, it is not necessarily grounds for divorce in every circumstance. In fact, he is a good husband and your best friend, and there are many aspects of your relationship that are very healthy. My advice is to separate and date other people, allowing him to do the same. Your friendship with him will last a lifetime, even if your marriage does not. For now, don’t make any hasty moves. In July, you will be clearer about what you are willing to live with and what you are not.

CELEBRITY PROFILES: Ellen DeGeneres is a bright-eyed Aquarius – what other sign could she be? This cutting-edge comedienne made her name by being the "first" in many categories, including the first openly lesbian sit-com star to come out of the closet as a character and an actress simultaneously. Aquarius is the sign of the future, and its natives are innovators in their field. DeGeneres could have a fabulous wedding in 2004.

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