I’m Lei, 19, a 3rd year ECE student here in Manila. I love chatting at the Net at it became a routine in my life.
This is where I met Tsinito. We started out as friends at di-nagtagal ay na-develop na pala siya sa akin. He’s only 17 and that’s the reason why ayoko sa kanya nung una. But because of his sweetness, I also fell in love with him. Every hour, he would call me to check if I’m okey, if I’ve eaten my meal and text me sweet nothings. I decided to meet him agad ‘coz I don’t like to fall for a guy na hindi ko pa nakikita. After our meeting, nothing has changed. He remained as sweet as before, mas sweeter pa nga ata. Then naging kami na nga. Last August 20 was my birthday. Usapan namin ay magkikita kami pero hindi niya ako sinipot. I don’t know his reason. Nag-explain siya pero para sa akin, he is lying and it hurt me a lot because it was a special day for me. One week bago kami nagkabati ulit.
Last October 2 was my Mom’s birthday. I invited him again and we decided to meet at the mall pero he did not come again. Para akong tanga na naghihintay sa wala. I even called him up on his cel and he said nasa malapit lang daw siya. I called him up again and this time, he said nasa bahay na nila siya. Ma-traffic daw. Napahiya ako sa bahay. He still calls me pero I think naglolokohan na lang kami. His sweetness is his way to cover-up his faults.
What do you think, Dr. Love? Is my decision right? By the way, I’m looking for a lot of friends who can help me get over Tsinito, like what happened to Mojacko. I hope I’m as lucky as him to be able to find someone I will treasure.
Thanks and more power.
Lei
c/o Ryan Gregorio
252 Gov. Pascual St.,
Sipac, Navotas, MM.
Dear Lei,
Yup, tama ang desisyon mo. Okey magmahal pero dapat may amor propio ka rin o pagmamahal sa sarili.
Paano mo naman iibigin ang lalaking nagbibigay sa iyo lagi ng kahihiyan at sama ng loob?
I’m publishing your letter and address para sulatan ka ng mga nais makipagkaibigan sa iyo.
Dr. Love