Women's Guide to What not to do With your current relationship

I'm a guy, but i'm trying not to be biased whatsoever. I'm not saying it's the fault of the guy or the girl. Im just trying to point out things that might provoke most guys. Think outside the box. During a fight, it may be someone's fault... but not entirely. The other party may have something to do with it, one way or the other. My point is: it's nobody's fault because they are just being themselves. It's true that most people can change or adapt to new relationships, but some people revert to their old familiar ways.

#1 Never compare your ex-boyfriend or should I say previous boyfriends with your current boyfriend. This also goes for previous courtships & relationships. The way you guys used to do things back then may or may not apply to your current relationship. Don't force it!

#2 Do not tell him you are still tempted with a previous acquaintance especially if your boyfriend knows you already had sex with that person. And don't tell him "ayyeeee.... you're jealous", even if he might not admit it. But he hates hearing that...no matter the situation.

#3 If you have something on your mind (like you always do) and you know it's nothing, don't blurt it out to him coz he will remember it for a long time. At some point, he might even lose his trust or confidence in you.

#4 Saying the words "I love you" is always good to hear. But don't say it when he's in a bad mood. Especially when you guys are fighting and it's your fault or at least if he thinks it's your fault. Anyway, when people are angry, they tend to say things they don't mean and hearing inappropriate things annoy them. In this case, saying "I love you" right after you just told him you like someone else.

#5 Some guys want to change a part of you but not entirely. Women tend to change their boyfriend into someone he is not. BAD MOVE! You'll probably end up getting mad at him anyway for not changing or for him reverting to his old self.

#6 If they say they don't want to be experimented on, please listen to them. The only reason they do it anyway is because they don't want you to get mad or, in most cases, don't want you acting like a baby and give them a cold shoulder. Get a clue! It's childish and they're annoyed by it.

#7 The thing with most women is, they tend to disrupt the guys from their normal daily habit (sleeping, eating, watching TV, playing computer games, hang out with the guys, etc) even if they overdo it sometimes. They're not looking for a martyr girlfriend. They just want to be free every once in a while. Some women lock them up in chains and don't allow them to go out on their arm.

#8 People are different; therefore, guys aren't the same as women. Just because you like it doesn't mean your boyfriend will like it as well. Don't even expect him to try and like it. Quit forcing him...and quit dragging him into things he doesn't like doing. Be careful...it may just drive him away.

#9 The way to a man's heart is somewhat easy, just as easy to break it. Example, when you tactlessly blurt something that may discourage him or break his faith in you. Words that may make him lose his passion for you. Regrettably, he may even cheat on you because of this, regardless of the fact that he may have misunderstood you. This is often overlooked by women. Men are human, they are sensitive.

#10 Ever wonder why guys don't say much about certain things? It's because they want you to find out for yourself. They don't want to say anything. When they're fed up, they erupt. So, there!

For those women who read this and haven't learned anything, here's a tip in two words... never again! Some women justify themselves by saying, "It's so that we can be together!" Well guess what, keep that up and sometime in the near future there with be no "we" anymore. Trust me.