Disappointed yet loyal

When Apple opened preorders for its first foldable phone, the iPhone Duo, stock was gone in minutes. Some buyers who did get their orders in are still waiting, with delivery dates as far out as January 2027. One founder writing for Inc. stood in line for five hours in Thailand’s scorching heat to get one and said it was worth it. Most of us would not queue five hours for our own wedding.

The criticism came fast. Apple should have known the demand. Apple should have made more phones. Why pay thousands of dollars, then wait months? Fair questions. But beneath them lies a business lesson worth studying. People don’t just buy products. They buy the experience, the expectation, the familiarity and the trust. Deliver those consistently over time and something special happens. People become loyal.

Satisfaction and loyalty are not the same thing. A satisfied customer had a good experience. A loyal customer trusts you to keep delivering. Satisfaction is transactional; a satisfied customer can walk next door tomorrow for a lower price. A loyal customer thinks twice before switching because the relationship has history.

The Duo is the most expensive, and probably the heaviest, iPhone ever. Cheaper models with more features sit on the same shelf, yet demand for the Duo outstrips all of them. That is not a spec sheet at work. That is trust at work. But here is where I part ways with some of the commentary. The Inc. writer, Kimanzi Constable, argues that the goal is a customer base “willing to overlook your missteps.” I understand the point, but I would put it differently. Loyalty is not a license. It is a loan.

Think of it as a trust account. Every promise kept is a deposit. Every delay, every defect, every unanswered complaint is a withdrawal. Apple can absorb a sold-out launch and reports of cracking screens because it has been making deposits for decades. Most businesses do not have that kind of balance. Keep writing checks against an empty account, and the customer quietly closes it.

And customers here are closing accounts faster than ever. NIQ and Kantar data show Filipino consumers spending with intention, often choosing the lowest price over value, and pushing hard-discounters up 77 percent. In a market like that, nobody gets a free pass on missteps. Customers will forgive a mistake. They will not forgive a pattern.1

Critics deserve a hearing too. Some will never buy from you, but their complaints often point to unmet expectations and operational gaps. Ignore the mob, but never ignore the market. Many companies spend lavishly to acquire new customers and almost nothing on the ones they already have. I have never understood why credit card companies and phone carriers shower newcomers with incentives while longtime customers get nothing. That rewards the stranger and punishes the friend.

Loyalty is built on consistency: keeping your word, handling problems responsibly, making it easy to do business with you, and treating people with respect. This matters most for SMEs. A local restaurant can remember its regulars. A small shop can handle a complaint properly. A service can be delivered on time, and when it cannot, the delay can be explained honestly. Done consistently, it all becomes powerful.

Marketing creates awareness and gets people to try you, but it cannot create lasting loyalty on its own. A brilliant ad cannot rescue a poor experience. Advertising makes the promise. Only the experience keeps it.

For leaders, the lesson goes deeper. How you treat your employees shapes how they treat your customers. An organization that wants an exceptional customer experience while running a miserable employee experience is working against itself. People who are respected, equipped, and supported pass that same care on. You cannot expect your staff to make deposits in the customer’s account while you keep making withdrawals from theirs.

I have been a loyal Apple user for years. I have tried other brands (in fact, endorsed one many years ago), but I keep coming back for one simple reason. The service and assistance I have received from the Power Mac staff, one of Apple’s distributors, have been outstanding. My loyalty was not built at a launch event. It was built at the service counter.

You can copy a product, match a price, and replicate a promotion. You cannot easily replicate trust. So stop asking, “How can we sell more?” Ask instead, “What are we doing today that will make our customers want to stay with us tomorrow?”

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